A Little Consideration. A Lot Happier.

“It’s my life. I will do whatever I feel like.”

This is one of those sentences which has created a selfish bubble around the people. Yes its your life, yes you have the power to make the decisions, but don’t use it as an excuse to run away from the apology you have to make to your loved one.

Your life is not just your life. Your decisions are not just your decisions. Everything you do affects the people around you. If you want to live a life of seclusion, go live in a forest. Nobody will get affected then. But, if you want to live in a social world then you have to think for the people you love.

Don’t consider the people in general who doesn’t matter to you, but think about those special few before you take your decisions and do whatever the hell you want to do. You don’t want your parents to impose their decisions and thinking on you, then you don’t take decisions where they will get hurt in the long term. Because that decision is same as imposing, they are helpless to change your mindset.

Thinking about others don’t mean that you have to sacrifice and compromise all the time, but a good consideration will always help you lead a happy life.

Think before you take huge decisions of your life by yourself. Think about your spouse, your parents and your children before you just spit your so-called “your life, your rules” decisions. Because when you will love someone deeply and they turn out to be selfish and leave you, it will hurt the same amount.

Think. Consider. Live happily.

Β© Kinjal Jain

8 Comments Add yours

  1. Saptarsi Chakrabarty says:

    Well written.. albeit, I don’t fully find myself agreeable withone of the idea that demarcates as, a life in seclusion must be commanded under a Wildlife environment .
    Yet, you are precisely enough succinct to describe the motif .. and I; being a willful retreater appreciate it.

    #keep writing girl.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Kinjal Jain says:

      Thank you. It was just an example…you can go to the hills if you wantπŸ˜… just kidding…
      Thank you so much

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  2. Sadah says:

    This is nice.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Kinjal Jain says:

      Thank you Sadah 😊

      Like

      1. Sadah says:

        Would you like to share your content on our open publishing platform?

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      2. Kinjal Jain says:

        Can you brief me a bit about it…?

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      3. Sadah says:

        Ascerblog.xyz is an open blogging social platform where people can register and share their content.

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      4. Kinjal Jain says:

        Okay…will go through it 😊

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